We’ve all been there: You meet a great guy and decide to go out on a date. In your mind you did everything right, had a lively conversation and were very open minded. Employes who are so disorganized and chaotic that they make hiring decisions based on who nudges them are not good places to work. And they aren’t assuming that you’re disorganized if you don’t follow up because . The only exceptions to this are after an interview, if a few weeks or more have gone by*. As for the notion that employers will assume that you’re not interested if you don’t follow up, or that you’re disorganized or bad at communicating … The onus really is on the employer to get in touch with you at that point, but if other priorities get in the way and the hiring timeline gets dragged out, there’s nothing wrong with checking in (by email, once) and letting them know that you’re still interested. “A man wants to know that he is entering into the possibility of a new relationship, not cleaning up some other guy’s mess.” 2. Problem: Making it too easy “Men love a good challenge. “Ex-talk is the biggest travesty to creating a new relationship.
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